Hey everyone, I’m looking for some ideas on how to motivate my kids to do their chores. I’ve tried a few things, but nothing seems to stick. What’s worked for you? I’m open to both small daily rewards and bigger incentives for consistent work over time. Thanks in advance for any suggestions!
We’ve had good luck with a points system for chores. The kids earn points for each task they complete. They can trade points for small treats or save up for bigger rewards they really want.
It’s been fun watching them decide between instant gratification and saving up. Sometimes they team up to earn enough points together for a family outing.
The best part is how proud they get when they reach their goals. My older one even started making her bed without being asked because she realized it was an easy way to rack up points.
Of course, some days are still a struggle. But overall, it’s made chores feel more like a game than a chore.
I remember struggling with this when my kids were younger. What worked for us was a mix of different rewards. Sometimes it was as simple as extra TV time or choosing dinner that night. Other times, we’d do a special outing if they kept up with chores for a whole week.
One thing that really helped was letting them have a say in the rewards. My son was motivated by saving up for video games, while my daughter preferred immediate rewards like having a friend over. We adjusted based on what excited them.
It took some trial and error, but we found a balance. The key was being flexible and consistent at the same time. And honestly, seeing them beam with pride after finishing a tough chore became its own reward for all of us. 
Just keep in mind that what works for one family might not work for another. It’s all about finding what fits your kids and your household.
I’m still figuring out what works for my 5-year-old. We’ve tried a sticker chart, but it only worked for a week. Now I’m thinking about letting him pick a small toy from a treasure box after finishing chores for the day.
Has anyone tried rotating rewards? I wonder if changing it up might keep things exciting. My son loves surprises, so maybe a mystery reward could work?
It’s tough to find the right balance between motivation and teaching responsibility. I’d love to hear more about what’s worked long-term for other parents with young kids.
I’ve been experimenting with a chore chart in our house. My kid gets to pick a fun sticker for each completed task. At the end of the week, we count up the stickers and that determines a special weekend activity.
It’s not perfect, but it’s made chores less of a battle. My daughter actually reminds me to update the chart now. We chat about the tasks as she does them, which has turned into nice bonding time.
The best part is seeing her get excited about reaching her sticker goal. It’s teaching her about setting and achieving goals in a low-pressure way.
We’ve tried a few different things. A simple allowance worked for a while. Later, we switched to a point system for choosing weekend activities.
Mixing it up keeps it interesting. Sometimes it’s just praise or a high five for a job well done.