I’ve been trying to figure out the best way to discipline my kids. A friend mentioned positive reinforcement, but I’m not sure what the actual benefits are. Has anyone here used this method? What kind of results did you see? I’m really curious about how it might help with behavior and our relationship overall.
I’ve used positive reinforcement with my kids for years now, and it’s been a game-changer. When my oldest was little, we started with a simple point system for chores and good behavior. It was amazing how quickly she started looking for ways to earn points!
As they got older, we adapted the system. Now, my teens have more say in choosing their rewards, which keeps them motivated. We’ve had our ups and downs, but overall, it’s helped build a more positive relationship between us. They’re more likely to open up about problems, and I’ve noticed they’re developing better self-discipline.
One unexpected benefit was how it changed my own behavior. I found myself looking for the good more often, which made parenting more enjoyable. It’s not a magic fix, but it’s definitely made our home happier. 
We use a sticker system for chores. Kids earn screen time or small treats.
It’s worked well so far. They’re more motivated to help out and we argue less about housework.
Not perfect, but definitely an improvement.
I’ve been trying positive reinforcement with my 5-year-old for a few weeks now. It’s been interesting to see how they respond to praise and small rewards for good behavior. I’m curious though, has anyone found that their kids start to expect rewards for everything? Or do they eventually internalize the good behavior?
One thing that’s worked well for us is a sticker chart for completing morning routines. My child gets excited to add stickers, but I wonder if that excitement will fade. What are some ways you’ve kept positive reinforcement fresh and effective long-term?
We’ve been using positive reinforcement with our kids for a while now. It’s been really helpful in our house.
For our 7 year old, we have a special jar where they put in marbles for completing tasks or showing kindness. Once it’s full, we plan a fun family activity together.
Our 10 year old likes to earn points that can be traded for extra screen time or a special outing with mom or dad.
It’s not perfect, but we’ve seen improvements. The kids seem more eager to help out and there’s less arguing about chores. They also appear more confident when tackling new challenges.
Keeping things simple and being consistent with praise and rewards has made a big difference. It takes some effort, but it’s worth it to see them grow and feel proud of themselves.
In our household, positive reinforcement has really made a difference. My child used to grumble about cleaning up, but now we add a playful twist to it. For instance, we sometimes have a quick contest to see who can pick up the most items in just a few minutes. This small change has boosted their willingness to help and made our home feel more relaxed. Although it isn’t perfect, the overall atmosphere has become much more pleasant and cooperative.