I’ve been thinking about using reward charts to motivate my kids, but I’m not sure where to start. Has anyone had success with these? Looking for tips on how to set them up in a way that actually works and doesn’t backfire. What kind of rewards work best? How often should you update the chart? Any advice would be appreciated!
I’ve used reward charts with both my kids. They worked well, especially when the kids were younger. We started with a basic chart on the fridge listing daily tasks like making their bed or putting away toys.
For rewards, we used a mix of small treats and extra privileges. My son loved earning extra video game time, while my daughter preferred choosing a special activity with me. We updated the chart weekly, which kept things fresh.
One thing I learned was to keep the goals achievable. Too many tasks overwhelmed them at first. We started small and gradually added more as they got used to it.
The charts helped for a while, but as they got older, we shifted to a more general expectation of responsibility. Now my teens have chores tied to their allowance and phone use. It’s been a journey, but the early charts definitely helped set the foundation. 
We use a simple chart on the fridge. Tasks like homework and clearing dishes earn points.
Points add up to small rewards or a bigger monthly treat. Kids choose rewards, which helps motivation.
It’s not perfect, but it’s improved some routines in our house.
We’ve been experimenting with reward charts in our house lately. My 11-year-old helped design it, which got him more invested. We keep it low-key - just a simple chart on the fridge with basic tasks.
For rewards, we’ve found a mix of small treats and fun experiences works well. Sometimes it’s ice cream, other times it’s choosing a family movie night. We update weekly to keep things fresh.
It’s been hit or miss, honestly. Some weeks he’s really into it, others not so much. But overall, it’s helped build some good habits without too much pressure. We’re still tweaking as we go along.
We’ve had good luck with reward charts for our kids. We keep it simple with a weekly chart on the fridge. Each day they can earn stickers for things like brushing teeth or helping set the table.
At the end of the week, if they get enough stickers they pick a small prize from a box. Nothing fancy, just stuff like stickers or temporary tattoos.
The key has been consistency and letting the kids help choose what goes on the chart. They feel proud seeing it fill up.
It’s not perfect, but it’s helped build some good habits. And the kids get excited about it, which makes it easier for everyone.
I’ve been using a simple chart for my 5-year-old. We put stickers on for things like picking up toys and helping feed the dog. It’s going okay, but I’m still figuring it out.
I’m curious about how others handle rewards. Right now, we do small treats or extra playtime. But I wonder if that’s teaching the right lesson? Sometimes my kid asks what they’ll get for doing a chore, which makes me unsure.
Has anyone found a good balance between rewards and just expecting help around the house? I want to teach responsibility, but I’m new to all this and still learning what works best.