I’m working with kids and trying to figure out the best ways to get them to cooperate using positive reinforcement instead of just telling them what not to do. What specific techniques or approaches have worked for you? I’m looking for practical ideas that actually work in real situations, not just theory. Any examples of how you’ve applied this would be really helpful.
My kid responds better to earning privileges than tangible rewards. Last week, I noticed he made his bed without reminders after I mentioned he could have extra screen time if he kept his room tidy for three days straight. What surprised me was how much more effective it was to tie cooperation to something he already wanted instead of creating artificial rewards. Now, I look for natural consequences that feel like earning something good rather than just avoiding something bad.
Sticker charts worked great when mine were younger. Now I just acknowledge the good stuff right when it happens.
Like thanks for clearing your plate without me asking or nice job helping your sister.
Seems to stick better than rewards after the fact.