I’ve been trying different strategies with my ADHD kid, and I’m curious about positive reinforcement. Has anyone had success with this approach? What kinds of rewards or praise worked best? Did you notice any improvements in behavior or focus? Just looking for some real-world insights from parents or teachers who’ve been there. Thanks!
Sticker charts worked well for my 9-year-old. Small, frequent rewards for staying on task or finishing homework without reminders.
My 12-year-old responds better to earned screen time or extra allowance for meeting goals.
I remember when my oldest was diagnosed with ADHD. It was tough at first, but positive reinforcement really helped us. We started small, praising effort more than results. Even little things like getting ready for school without being asked got a high five or a ‘great job!’
For bigger tasks, we used a reward system. Our kid could earn points for things like finishing homework or remembering to put dirty clothes in the hamper. They’d save up points for things they wanted, like extra game time or a special outing.
It took time, but we saw improvements. Our child seemed more motivated and started taking pride in accomplishing tasks. The key was being consistent and patient. Some days were harder than others, but sticking with it made a big difference for us. 
We’ve found a reward chart helpful with our 10-year-old. It’s pretty simple - they get stickers for finishing homework, tidying up, or remembering to brush teeth without reminders.
At the end of the week, they can trade stickers for fun stuff like extra TV time or a trip to the park. It’s been great seeing them get excited about earning stickers.
One thing that surprised me was how much they liked picking out their own stickers at the store. It made them feel more invested in the whole process.
It’s not always smooth sailing, but overall it’s helped create more positive vibes around daily tasks. And seeing their proud face when they fill up a row on the chart is pretty awesome.
In my house, we’ve had some success with a points system for chores and tasks. My kid earns points for completing things like homework or cleaning their room. They can then redeem those points for fun activities or small treats.
I’ve noticed it helps create a sense of accomplishment and motivation. The key has been keeping it flexible and letting my child have input on the rewards. It’s not perfect, but it’s made a positive difference in our daily routines.
I’ve been trying positive reinforcement with my 5-year-old. We use a simple chart where they get a star for things like putting toys away or helping set the table.
It’s working okay some days, but other times it feels like a struggle. I’m curious how long it took for others to see consistent results?
One thing that’s helped is letting my kid choose the reward at the end of the week. They get so excited about picking something special.
But I still worry - am I relying too much on rewards? Will my child ever want to help just because it’s the right thing to do? Any thoughts on balancing rewards with teaching intrinsic motivation?