I’m having a tough time with my kids when it comes to daily chores. At first, they’re all in, but after a week or two, their motivation just drops, and then it’s back to me nagging them.
I’m really curious to hear what strategies others have used to keep their kids motivated for chores on a daily basis. I’m looking for practical tips that can make a difference in the long run, not just quick fixes.
What worked for us was connecting chores to things they already look forward to. My kids get to pick their weekend movie after they complete their daily tasks for the week, or they earn extra screen time when they help out without being asked.
I also started doing a quick check-in at dinner where we talk about what everyone accomplished that day. They love sharing what they did, and it makes them feel proud of contributing to the house.
Some days they still need reminders, but having those little rewards to work toward has made a huge difference. They’ve started doing things like making their beds without me even asking because they know it counts toward their goal.
I faced a similar issue with my child losing interest in chores. One thing that helped was changing up the tasks regularly. Instead of sticking to the same routine, we rotate chores like washing dishes or organizing spaces, which keeps things fresh. Music also makes a difference; sometimes we race to fold laundry, while other times, we just enjoy each other’s company while tidying up. This way, it feels less like a chore and more like a fun activity.